Come as you are.

well, i think i should have more girl BFF than guys BFF.

at that point i thought guys BFF can be more frank, caring, easy going.
but maybe now i'm wrong.
yes, they maybe frank, caring, easy going. you name it, they have it.

but when they met someone they have in mind.
your so called BFF status is outta their mind(s).

why?
they can't be so close to you as ever.
they concentrate someone they have in mind more than your 'BFF status'.

and?
you will mind getting close with them cos' you afraid that your BFF gf might get jealous.
and they end up in arguments because of you.

so you are back in square 1.


whereas,

you have a female BFF.
though they have bf, you still go out as and when you want with her.
you no need to worry they might argue because of you. (unless the bf likes you)


so...

conclusion...

never stay so close with someone.


it somehow taught me a lesson.

you'll feel a pinched on your face.